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March 24, 2015

A Senior’s Guide to Vibrators

…hearing aids aren’t natural, either, but if they help us feel better and live our lives with zest, why say no? Here’s why we should care about vibrators at our…

May 27, 2014

Vibrators for Older Women: How to Buy the Right One

…  Yes, orgasms are amazingly effective for reducing anxiety and depression, and increasing your sense of well-being – and vibrators can be the most powerful shortcut to a strong orgasm!…

September 8, 2015

How to Use a Vibrator Discreetly

…questions to for a later column.) Back to vibrators: I suggest you tell your friend that she take a look at my “Senior’s Guide to Vibrators” on Senior Planet…

April 17, 2015

How to Find Sexual Pleasure in a Sexless Marriage

…And no, vibrators don’t decrease sensation – they increase it! There are even waterproof vibrators available, since you enjoy masturbation in the shower. (See my “A Senior’s Guide to Vibrators”…

May 1, 2017

Why Older Woman May Have Trouble Climaxing—and What You Can Do

vibrators and doesn’t want me to use one. He wants to make sure I reached orgasms with him, not with my sex toy. Why can’t I climax anymore? Did I…

November 10, 2015

Late Life Romance: New Strategies for Satisfying Sex

…with you anyway, I think that letting go of woman-on-top as the Gold Standard would serve you well. Instead, you know that I’m going to recommend trying vibrators – I…

July 15, 2019

Ask Joan: Where to start?

…reaching orgasm, experiment with clitoral vibrators. One unsatisfying vibrator experience just means you didn’t have the right one for your needs. Read my “ Senior’s Guide to Vibrators ” and…

September 16, 2019

Ask Joan: More Quickies

…suggest one of these vibrators that work when the penis is flaccid. (Links are to reviews on my blog by Shamus MacDuff, my 75-year-old reviewer of penis vibrators.) JETT from…

October 13, 2015

How an Older Woman Can Reach Orgasm Faster

…it, but I encourage you to try others. Read my Senior’s Guide to Vibrators ( and my vibrator reviews at You may find that the orgasm that took you…

April 5, 2015

A Senior’s Guide to Lubrication

Lubricants. Especially as we grow older, we all should be using lube for every kind of sexual contact: partner sex, solo sex, sex-toy sex (see A Senior’s Guide to Vibrators),…

January 3, 2016

The Best of 2015 on Senior Planet

…our recovering technophobe has figured out how to make it work for her. Read more A Senior’s Guide to Vibrators They’re cute, colorful and come in a multitude of styles….

June 18, 2018

Ask Joan: Why no orgasms?

…Masturbate frequently. Indulge yourself with racy fantasies. Use vibrators and plenty of lubricant for extra intense stimulation. If you smoke, quit. Smoking limits blood flow to the genitals. Limit alcohol,…

July 20, 2016

How to Put the Adventure Back In Your Sex Life

…“A Senior’s Guide to Vibrators” on Senior Planet and read my reviews from a senior perspective at Partner sex is much more than intercourse, as you’ve discovered. Keep the…

May 12, 2017

Why You Should Watch Season 3 of “Grace and Frankie”

…Busting Stereotypes, One Ergonomic Vibrator at a Time The season starts with Grace and Frankie visiting a bank to get a 10-year loan for their new business: ergonomic vibrators for…

January 9, 2017

What’s the Deal with a “Loose” Vagina?

…have virtually no vaginal muscle strength. I cannot squeeze anything at all. I self-pleasure with penetrative vibrators, but they feel like they’re swimming in there. I’ve tried Kegels, but it’s…