Last time we talked about Retail Therapy and purchases that lift our spirits and you did not disappoint. Cleta pointed out and shared an essential part of retail therapy….the hunt.
For me, it’s the shopping. It’s the thrill of the hunt for that perfect “thing” whether home furnishings, clothes or crafts. I shop the whole store, spending hours, put all my finds in the cart, then return it all to the shelves.
Cleta B.
Cleta has more willpower than I do, cause a lot of that stuff stays in my cart. Bonus point for willpower, Cleta!
And Judith is my kind of gal, going for the whole Retail Therapy package,
I love your article !
When I visit Florida “retail therapy” is one of my favorite past times with my girlfriend. And of course dinner & wines afterwards tops off a perfect Day !
-Judith.
You go, girl! And my article loves you!
I’m happy to see that I’m not alone loving thrift shops, as Susan does…
I love thrift shopping. You can find beautiful, well made and vintage finds in the clothing and home goods sections and always lots of books. It’s definitely an adventure
-Susan
I hope you’ll visit the comments again and share some of your best thrift shop wins!
Of course, Retail Therapy isn’t for everybody, as Rosa points out, in her comments – stores are loud, and crowded and forget about the holidays! …
However, several readers point out that Retail Therapy isn’t necessarily clothes shoppiing…
Art supplies make me happy as I imagine all the fun I’m going to have using & experimenting with them
-Ginger
Flowers make me happy. A bouquet, an indoor or outdoor plant.
-MB
We’ll keep the comments open for a while and we welcome hearing about what you buy to lift your spirits…and any big thrift shop scores.
Meanwhile, thanks for stopping by- if you missed it firt time around the original column is below:
Sometimes the simple things…aren’t so simple – like a shopping spree with a good friend.
I just returned from Florida and a visit with my bestie. On my first day there we spent the day at a huge mall in St. Augustine. It was the best thing ever – we went in and out of stores, did the whole girl trip. running in and out of each other’s dressing rooms, holding up dresses to each other for a ‘what do you think?” session, enlisting the help of sales ladies, and random women in the dressing rooms kibitzing.
Retail Therapy Works!
We went in and out of stores the whole giddy afternoon, and left loaded with packages – clothes, bling, music, lingerie, accessories. It was bliss and not just because we got new stuff.
You have to be really close to somebody for a real honest to goodness shopping spree.
Think of it:
You’re standing in a painfully well lit dressing room that highlights every bulge and wrinkle. You’re wondering if the mirrors are legit or if they take off ten pounds and you’ll look like you’re wearing a sausage casing when you get home. The lighting makes you look like a Martian.
It takes a real friend to shop under those circumstances. A real friend who will give it to you straight, but with kindness, like when she infers that the bathing suit you love is too young for you. (You were so right, Terrie, thanks!)
An hour of Retail Therapy with a friend is more emotionally nourishing and more fun than an hour with a therapist…and when the hour is over, maybe you’ve got a nice bangle.
I told a guy I know about it and he liked my new bling and my new sunglasses but he sort of…didn’t get it. Men hate shopping he said, (which to me is like hating breathing but ok). But when I asked him if there was an equivalent thing for men, he was stumped. I felt kind of sorry for him.
So how about it? Tell us about your experience with retail therapy. Are clothes your thing? Music? What do you buy that cheers you up? Let us know in the comments!
Virge Randall is Senior Planet’s Managing Editor. She is also a freelance culture reporter who seeks out hidden gems and unsung (or undersung) treasures for Straus Newspapers; her blog “Don’t Get Me Started” puts a quirky new spin on Old School New York City. Send your suggestions for Open Threads to her at editor@seniorplanet.org.
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COMMENTS
11 responses to “Open Thread Update: Shopping Sprees and Retail Therapy”
Shoes. Shoe shopping! In person or online. During the worst part of Covid when we were afraid to go to the grocery store, my husband would catch me online, shoe shopping. Did I buy a lot? No. Did I look a lot? Oh yes.
What did I learn? Shoes represented “opportunity.” The opportunity to wear them out dancing. The opportunity to wear them on vacations, to garden parties, to meals with a big table of friends & family. Shoes gave me hope that things could get better…and they did.
thanks for a wonderful comment!
For me, it’s the shopping. It’s the thrill of the hunt for that perfect “thing” whether home furnishings, clothes or crafts. I shop the whole store, spending hours, put all my finds in the cart, then return it all to the shelves.
I love your article !
When I visit Florida “retail therapy” is one of my favorite past times with my girlfriend. And of course dinner & wines afterwards tops off a perfect Day !
I highly recommend the St. Augustine Mall. Whooo HOO! There’s a restaurant in Jacksonville called Massimos’ or something like that – long italian name begins with an M. Try the frozen peach Bellinis. AWESOME.
ths for the response.
Flowers make me happy. A bouquet, an indoor or outdoor plant. Just not bought too often, to keep it special.,
I admire your restraint, but my motto is “too much ain’t enough.” That’s how I walked out of Bloomingdales with five hats one time. One in every color…I felt like Jackie Kennedy. I had to sneak them into my apartment so my husband wouldn’t notice. I just walked home wearing a hat I hadn’t worn that morning when I left. I still laugh when I think of it.
I love thrift shopping. You can find beautiful, well made and vintage finds in the clothing and home goods sections and always lots of books. It’s definitely an adventure. I don’t care for malls but will visit a big dept. store or Target when needed – sadly, most of those stores turned into Macy’s.
In the 80s i had five Albert Nippon dresses and none of ’em cost more than fifty bucks. I hear ya. Too bad the thirfts are getting wise to us!
I hate shopping malls. I don’t see shopping as therapy. I learned to hate shopping at a young age when I went shopping with my mother. I found many store clerks insensitive because they humiliated me. Buying something I don’t need or want is not a good feeling because then I’m stuck with it for life! I limit the places where I will shop. Loud, miserable music is another thing I hate about shopping. It’s especially bad around Christmas because I can’t stand Christmas music.
Art supplies make me happy as I imagine all the fun I’m going to have using & experiementing with them. I don’t like shopping with other people as I feel they might be judging me.
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