Video of the Week: Accepting Our Bodies
“I finally stood there one day and said, When are you going to be OK? You’ve been spending almost 50 years trying to get thinner, trying not to have cellulite, ankles that swell…. When are you going to be OK? And I finally said, Today. You’re going to be OK today.”
Jacelyn O’Shaughnessy shook up stereotypes when she appeared in bra and undies for American Apparel. At 62, she was way past the age of your typical lingerie model. Senior Planet talked to Jacky earlier this year about what it meant to bare body and soul and the impact the American Apparel campaign might have. She told us, “I feel that healthy aging requires awareness and continued discipline, but also not giving in to the limiting attitudes that have been fostered for such a long time about getting older.” (Read the interview here.)
In this video, part of a series called the What’s Underneath Project – “Style is knowing who you are – it’s what’s underneath” – Jacky talks more about coming to terms with her body. While it might seem easy for her (no rolls of fat to worry about), what she says applies to us all.
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I am 75 and my face looks terrific for that age … genetics here. However, the rest of my body definitely shows the wear and tear of aging, breast cancer, cellulite, sagging arms, and sagging and crepey skin on the whole body, age spots on hands and thin skin everywhere, many moles and skin tags…. I have lost 25 pounds which feels good but the loss has made the skin worse and my facial cheeks and under eye grooves are hollow. The facial skin has very little color but a touch of blush here and there does wonders. Eyebrows are very faded and need to be filled in every day.
So be it. I plan on having a filler treatment shortly. Just a little to fill in the hollow look on my face. For me. And that’s a good thing.
I cannot take hormones to increase my desire for sex because of the estrogen positive breast cancer I had and I have a young boyfriend. He is wonderful and has his own physical limitations from an accident and his spine is pinned and he has to limit his movements.
Perhaps it’s not always the sex act but we enjoy spending time with each other and hugging and being close on our bed with loving touches and kisses and we get creative too. His sex drive is at a different level than mine and I understand that and don’t forget it.
We make it work with love and tenderness. Unthinkably good things can happen even late in the game. It’s such a surprise.
Thank you for “baring” yourself so that other “older” women can relate and perhaps feel good enough about themselves to do the same. I am 69 years old and decided that I wouldn’t color my hair anymore. It’s silver/white, and now looking at you I think I will let it grow longer. Thank you for sharing.
Hope I look Has good as u when i get to ur age which is only 12 yrs from now God Bless:)
[65 next month ]i just had a day of amazing sex with my new middle aged girlfriend. you are never too old to live
Is anyone surprised that Jacky O’Shaughnessy, a 6 ft. attractive, slender woman doesn’t feel too uncomfortable taking her clothing off while on camera? If you really wanted “mature” women to believe that we, too, can feel good about our bodies, despite our expanding waistlines, it would have been wiser to have featured someone who looks like most women of 62. The video reminds me of stores selling Plus-size clothing while using size 6 mannequins. For sure, the clothing won’t look the same on a size 16 woman. I’m a size 8 but if anything, the video made me feel even worse about the result age and a few extra pounds has had on my body.
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Not all mature women have expanding waistlines and are plus sizes. Your remark is unfair to J.O. It’s unfortunate the video made you feel worse. You will have to address these feelings on your own.