We hit such a nerve with the “Unpaid Second Jobs” post we’re bringing it back for another update. Seems there are plenty more folks fed up with the phone trees, apps, terrible ‘hold’ music, and hoops we must jump through…when there are tons of unemployed people who would be happy to take our calls, schedule our appointments, and help us with our tech.
A late addition, Christina T., has the right attitude – she doesn’t work for free.
Surveys? Not anymore because I’m giving away free information. If a company or hospital needs me to ‘consult,’ they can pay me a $150 consulting fee.
You GO, girl! She also has a smart comment about the fashion for unreadable online instructions in tiny grey type fonts.
Reader Karen adds her take on the perennial BS comment we hear while on hold.
And if I’m told one more time how important my call is to them, I will scream!
There are several terrific new comments in the comments below, as well – so add yours while the latecomers peruse the previous update, below.
Seems we hit a nerve last time with the rise of self-service via web, text, phone trees and more. Every commenter save one wanted to quit their unpaid jobs as receptionists, customer service, and tech support.
Some, like Reader Jane, are sick of the merry go round when compelled to install an app to get a customer service phone number….which directs her to the app.
The cable service person should come to my house to fix problems. Instead I’m on the phone for hours, first to get a human being on the line. Then, as a senior I become the repair guy, trying every suggestion to diagnose and fix the problem including pulling furniture away from the wall to access the back of the tv and cable box, getting down on the floor, reading tiny box ID numbers, and pushing every button. I also wish iphones, TVs, and electronics came with printed instruction manuals.
-A. Goodman
Phone Hell
Kris C. sums up Phone Hell…
The rounds of hitting 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 on the phone, only to be instructed to repeat that process in the 2nd and 3rd and 4th step drives me crazy….I view it as jump in the deep end of the pool and learn how to swim. It isn’t going away.
…and don’t ask Reader Judy about texting!
I’m tired of businesses that respond ONLY via texting. ..The office manager & I spent more than a few hours texting back & forth with me trying to explain the situation & schedule an appointment. This could’ve been handled in 10 minutes, or less with an actual phone call.
-Judy
Customer (Dis)Service
Reader Wendy, one sharp cookie, picks up on a very interesting aspect of “live chat.”
I also agree will all of the comments! Companies don’t list a phone number on their web site because they have no one to take a phone call but they have a live person who can do a “live chat” with you. Really?? Why can’t they just pick up the phone??
-Wendy C.
Why not? Maybe the next time I get a ‘live chat” I’ll ask them.
Reader Al points out the new realities of customer service and he ain’t happy about it.
I agree with all. Customer/Patient “Service” is non-existent. Companies/Health Care people have dumped many of their past jobs on to the consumer/patient. Makes me wonder what do they do to earn their paychecks now?????????? Tech has COST the consumer/patient time, not saved it. EVERYTHING takes longer.
-Al B.
But Wait!
Reader Ocean offers the (only) opposing view.
I love the convenience of scheduling on line, ordering take out or delivery or even grocery shopping on line. For me it saves time. I super enjoy attending or teaching classes on zoom. No more driving or walking to a class in all kinds of weather and I don’t worry about when students arrive .
-Ocean
As long as the online classes are with Senior Planet, Ocean!
We’ll keep the comments open for a while. Please share your pet peeves and feel free to vent...who knows? Maybe some companies will listen up! Want to know what the fuss is about? The column that started it all is below.
Original Column:
Looking at my inbox or my smartphone, one would think I am:
-a data entry clerk
-an appointment secretary
-an answering service
I do not want any of those jobs, but I have been drafted for all of them!
Data entry hell
One of the things that made going to the doctors tolerable was the quiet ten or fifteen minutes spent in their offices filling out their forms. The receptionists were all nice, sometimes there was coffee, and I had the chance to collect myself before seeing the doctor.
Nope. Now it’s two or three emails inviting me to open an account and enter all my info for them once I make up a user name and figure out a unique password with more than 8 letters or numbers, one symbol and one uppercase letter.
Then I must negotiate my way around the online appointment calendar.
Thing is, I’ve done all that and I have never seen the doctor any sooner, – and last time I counted I had 62 passwords.
Call me old school. I say bring back receptionists.
And that’s just the medical ones, Don’t get me started about the financial ones, the membership ones, the insurance ones, the shopping ones, or the corporate ones where you have to go through a phone tree for fifteen minutes before you can talk to a human.
To add insult to injury, none of these entities pass along any of the savings to the customer even though I am an unofficial employee.
I swear I’m working harder and at more jobs than I did when I was working full time….and there’s no vacation time from any of these!
Call me old school. I say bring back receptionists.
And in person customer service without fifteen “press 1, 2 or 3” options.
And answering services that actually answer instead of requiring me to speak into the void with some quite personal information. Sometimes the callback number is unidentified and I miss it because I think it’s the thousandth person telling me my auto warranty expired when I don’t have a car.
YOUR TURN
I could go on and on, but that’s me. How about you? What old school human contact do you miss the most that’s been replaced by an automated/online service….and you? Let us know in the comments!
Virge Randall is Senior Planet’s Managing Editor. She is also a freelance culture reporter who seeks out hidden gems and unsung (or undersung) treasures for Straus Newspapers; her blog “Don’t Get Me Started” puts a quirky new spin on Old School New York City. Send Open Thread suggestions to editor@seniorplanet.org.
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COMMENTS
29 responses to “Open Thread Update: Unpaid Second Jobs, Round 2”
Yes, definitely hit a nerve for me. My bank sent me a text and asked me to ring them. I pressed all the number buttons required then held for an hour after which the phone clicked and I was sent back to the question and answer number buttons again. At this point I gave up. I sent in a complaint (on line of course) not that it will make any difference. For sure, some things are more efficient, ordering, on line banking etc but customer service has suffered.
I thought the very relevant article will be of interest too:
https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2018/07/03/the-negatives-of-digital-life/
My pet peeve, that I’ve discovered an awesome work around, is trying to connect with a member of senior management. I have been quite successful with getting customer (dis) service issues resolved by bypassing the wail times by escalating this way.
Without actually plugging a company, by far the best ‘hold music’ is on one of the gardener supply companies where I shop which actually has birds chirping instead of dull or LOUD music! I don’t even mind the long wait ;)
At Walmart recently I bought a refrigerator. I thoroughly checked the box to ensure that it was unopened, and undamaged. I also checked the banded seal for integrity. All was looking well. Good luck finding an employee on the floor for any help. I refuse to use the self checkout registers in all stores, no matter how long the wait. You should too! Upon opening the sealed box at home, the unit was scratched & dented. I took it back, Supervisor said we will only give you 10% off. I returned it
I totally agree with you re self checkout. I absolutely refuse to do it, just as you say, regardless of how long I have to wait in line. If I’m going to be an employee ( however temporary) I expect to be either paid or offered a discount. So no, I will not check myself out
Many websites use the new black is grey, usually light grey. This is true of ‘health connection’ portals. I don’t use these services (?) because I can’t read the light grey text, which is also, in tiny print.
Surveys? Not anymore because I’m giving away free information. If a company or hospital needs me to ‘consult,’ they can pay me a $150 consulting fee.
Yep, I’m doing the work that corporations think will be easy for all of us, no matter what age.
I love the “would you be willing to take our survey, press 1 now” before they even answer or respond to your reason for calling. I just find this so rude. Why not address my concerns first and then ask if I’ll complete a survey? Sheeesh.
We’ve all experienced the aggravation of phone trees, texting, filling in information previously handled by a human being. But wait…the tsunami of changes on the horizon in the form of AI…artificial intelligence is a game changer the likes of which you can’t imagine. How monumental is AI? Think in terms of the automobile replacing the horse and buggy and it will happen fast…in your lifetime even if you’re 80 years old. Some say the change will surpass the light bulb in place of candles.
Some little BIG annoyances:
“No-Reply”: “don’t call us, we’ll call you”. Go spend hours to navigate those hieroglyphic routes!!!
“Secure Emails”: after trouble opening, some have nothing of importance to you. No subject on the outside so we see if we want to bother opening.
“Paper bags”: stores charging “to save the climate” when they always gave them as a service…while using million plastic bags, boxes. Hypocrites at consumers’ expense!
Virge Randall…you’re a genious for starting this painful sample of what awaits us all when (no longer if) AI takes over and
[Oh twice this page switched on me deleting all my thoughts, darn it! But I’ll say this: I CONCUR WIT ALL YOUR THOUGHTS AS WELL AS OF THOSE OF ALL COMMENTERS. I hope the fix this … :(
The cable service person should come to my house to fix problems. Instead I’m on the phone for hours, first to get a human being on the line. Then, as a senior I become the repair guy, trying every suggestion to diagnose and fix the problem including pulling furniture away from the wall to access the back of the tv and cable box, getting down on the floor, reading tiny box ID numbers, and pushing every button. I also wish iphones, TVs, and electronics came with printed instruction manuals.
I like the new tech! I know that I’m among the minority but I love the convenience of scheduling on line, ordering take out or delivery or even grocery shopping on line. For me it saves time.
I like ordering from Target and driving up, checking in from the car, and having a young person bring things to me.Again, it saves time for me.
I super enjoy attending or teaching classes on zoom. No more driving or walking to a class in all kinds of weather and I don’t worry about when students arrive .
The rounds of hitting 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 on the phone, only to be instructed to repeat that process in the 2nd and 3rd and 4th step drives me crazy. I get very angry and agitated. It is a 21st century lesson in learning how to control my emotions but so far, it hasn’t worked. I do try to adapt to the internet, APPS, filling applications online, QR codes, reserving museums and concerts online, etc. etc. I view it as jump in the deep end of the pool and learn how to swim. It isn’t going away.
And if I’m told one more time how important my call is to them, I will scream! After 30 minutes on hold, I have serious doubts of the truth of that statement.
you said it!!
Yes, in many cases, we customers have also become unpaid employees, especially in grocery shopping. But what I miss the most is the interaction with the clerks. For example, the fruit section in my local grocery had an open window and you could make requests for this or that other fruit. About a year ago, management closed out the window and replaced it with a wall with self-service stands.
I’m tired of businesses that respond ONLY via texting. Recently I called my plumber to get an appointment to fix a slab leak problem. Of course I had to leave a message because no-one answers the phone anymore. They eventually responded via text. The office manager & I spent more than a few hours texting back & forth with me trying to explain the situation & schedule an appointment. This could’ve been handled in 10 minutes, or less with an actual phone call.
I also agree will all of the comments! Customer service is long GONE and I don’t think it will ever come back. I feel that technology has ruined that. I am only 62 and consider myself “old school” and that I grew up in the “good old days”!
Companies don’t list a phone number on their web site because they have no one to take a phone call but they have a live person who can do a “live chat” with you. Really?? Why can’t they just pick up the phone??
It has gotten to be a very impersonal world!
One representative is responding to several chats simultaneously, so it’s far more economical for the company than one representative on a call at a time. I presume this is the reason why there is often a long time lag between the consumer typing and sending a text and the receipt of a reply from the company.
I agree with all. Customer/Patient “Service” is non-existent. Companies/Health Care people have dumped many of their past jobs on to the consumer/patient. Makes me wonder what do they do to earn their paychecks now?????????? Tech has COST the consumer/patient time, not saved it. EVERYTHING takes longer.
The complex I live in has an app to schedule apartment repairs, so we first have to go through a series of steps before getting to what you actually need. The options given sometimes are not what I need, but I must choose something or I cannot complete the process. I miss when I could speak to a person. There is an option for that, but there is also a wait time.
And also what about airlines and their chat options?
I rarely respond on surveys. Why spend time when you get no compensation?
Years ago my boss, an exec at a Fortune 100 company, was begged multiple times to complete a detailed 20+ page survery related to our department’s work. Our consultant managing those aspects of our work estimated they would charge us $30k to complete the survey! We offered the survey company the opportunity to pay the $30k to get their survey completed. Of course they declined.
It’s gotten ridiculous! I will confirm my appointment, but I quit checking myself in online and just arrive a few minutes early. I also quit leaving reviews/doing surveys/giving feedback online.
When grocery stores started self checkout lines there was a comedian (don’t remember who) on TV with a line a something like this: “I walked in here as a customer, I’ll walk out of here as a customer, and at no time in between do I want to become an employee!” True that!
I loved the article, “Open Thread: Unpaid Second Jobs.” I feel like I’m the unpaid employee of the company I’m calling. It seems I’m the one doing all the work.
I miss speaking to a “live” customer service rep on the first go around. After the third transfer, I know it is going to be a long wait before I can get my question answered.
I don’t consider this progress.
Apart from medical services, what other types of services mentioned in the article have become automated and impersonal?
Auto insurance claims! I just went through a process that was all based on installing an app then communicating through it, including instructions to call a phone number which then rotated you back to an app.
that sounds awful!!
Agree with nearly every comment. Watching a relative going through the tortures of the damned months after changing cable provider. Generally, the phone systems don’t cover whatever I want answered, anyway. I have learned to make an odd request early in an encounter, which usually gets me a lovely human being rather quickly. Tames electric/gas, phone, bank, credit card, drug plan, and some medical offices.
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